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Stop Guessing, Start Knowing!

Safe healthy relationships begin with XOXY

XOXY (pronounced “Zoxy”) credentialed members are highly visible and stand out from the crowd of 40 million online singles in any dating platform or Smart phone app. You've found your potential someone by way of dating sites or in the real world. Before you make that first date, quickly verify that they have passed the XOXY health and safety tests. Our unique group of members hold themselves to a higher standard. Now, you can date with confidence.

XOXY is now more robust than ever! In addition to offering our self-initiated and privacy protected standard XOXY credential and a date stamped photo, we now have:
  1. FREE Search Option that allows users to sign up, refer their potential date to get XOXYied and verify that the credential has been received through the user Lookup Registry
  2. Background Check Only option that affords an Orange credential
  3. Standard Background and STD check for the Green credential
All this in a one stop mobile app that enhances your safety and security when dating in the real world and online.

In addition, we now have a Friends and Family link (FOF) which allows friends and family who have suspicions about a friend or family member's date to conduct a cursory check first for $9.95 and recommend the XOXY credential for a more thorough search.
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Newly single, Lisa meets Bob through a friend, Alex at a nightclub, Michael at the gym and Renny online. A hectic work schedule limits her time so she chooses Michael. Six months later she dumps him after discovering he has a criminal record and a week later learns through a friend that Bob has an STD. Disillusioned by the hazards of dating, she wishes there was a better way.


Sarah meets Kevin through a friend, Richard in a bar, David online and Jack at a concert. As a credentialed XOXY member, Sarah searches XOXY the day she meets each one and discovers that only Kevin and Jack are also credentialed. She decides to date Jack first and falls in love on the first date. Six months later they are choosing wedding venues.

Did you know?
  • Over $85 million is defrauded annually due to dating scams

  • 1.1 million people in the United States have AIDS, 16% of whom are unaware that they live with the infection

  • 1 in 3 American women will be sexually abused during their lifetime, according to George Mason University

  • 1 in 5 women has been sexually assaulted on college campuses, according to a White House task force

What XOXY is?
  • XOXY provides a personal security credential with no results or personal information in the app (if a person fails they are not in the app-no negative consequences). The credential last for six months.
  • Avoids an awkward conversation in person and online.
  • Affords a free tool to screen whether your potential date has any felonies, sex offenses or an STD and includes a real time photo.
  • FOF allows family members and friends to protect their loved ones.
  • Supports Internet Dating Safety Act for matchmakers, Meetup groups and online dating sites.



Stop Guessing, Start Knowing!